At 50, Benjamin’s soul aches. Day after day, not only does he encounter people younger than he with kids, but the kids themselves are starting to have kids. He is happy for them and dances joyfully at their simchas. He saves his complaints for God. “There are times when I feel so angry at God, so downtrodden. Dear God, You give me so many talents, but you don’t give me the opportunity to serve my wife with them.” If Benjamin…

At almost every one of our programs, someone will come up to us and ask, “What is the most important thing that I need to know before I start dating for marriage?” Most people expect to hear, “Look for someone with a good heart,” or “Always look your best – you never know who is watching you,” or even “Find someone with a good family background. They are usually surprised by our answer. The most important thing a person needs…